Explore new ways of counselling for men in Coquitlam BC

Therapy that doesn’t feel like therapy. A new kind of space for real conversations.

Richard “RJ” Friedland is a men’s therapist who believes healing happens when you feel safe, seen, and heard. That’s why The Shop was built for conversation—not diagnosis.

No white coats. No judgment. Just a space where you can be real.

At The Shop, you can talk while throwing darts or grabbing a coffee—no pressure, just real talk.

You don’t have to sit on a couch and spill your guts under fluorescent lights.

“Healing begins when you give your story a voice.”

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of Canadian men report never using professional mental health services

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of men in Canada report being at risk of moderate to severe depression

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men in Canada experience major depression each year

Not your typical therapy office.

COUNSELLING FOR MEN

A safe space to open up about stress, relationships, or identity without judgment. Practical support to help you build resilience and confidence in everyday life.

Addiction and recovery Counselling

A welcome space that’s free of white coats and judgment. Recovery at The Shop includes practical support and grounded tools that you can use in your life.

Anxiety and Depression

Support for managing anxiety, low mood, and emotional overwhelm. Counselling helps you understand patterns, develop practical coping tools, and reconnect.

EMDR

Richard is trained to provide eye movement desensitization and reprocessing to men and first responders who need an extra hand and a secure space.

Stress Counselling

Sick and tired of work and expectations, or just sick and tired in general? We offer stress counselling when you’re tired of having too many stressful days in a row.

Trauma Counselling

Events from the past are some of the hardest things to process. We offer an open space for trauma counselling where you can share your story at your own pace—no judgment included.

A New Approach to

a traditional practice.

Choose your space

Choose your space

Pick the spot that feels right for you—dart board, bar-style table, or sitting in a casual setting.

Talk it out

Talk It Out

Share your story at your own pace. No judgment—just real conversation.

Make It Stick

Make It Stick

Walk away with grounded tools and guidance you can actually use in everyday life.

Resources

When He Pulls Away: A Guide for Partners of Struggling Men

Why do men pull away when they face mental health challenges? We go over why in this guide for partners of struggling men.
Canadian couple in their mid-30s sitting apart on a couch at home, looking emotionally distant and stressed, suggesting relationship problems and unresolved conflict.

A different space for real conversations.